As a solo traveler, you begin to gain a level of confidence in your decision-making and desire for more that is remarkable for the healing journey. I mean, the ability to choose where, when, why, and how? That’s top-tier self-care. Relying on your own better judgment to take risks will boost your self-esteem and give you the courage to face tasks head-on.
The beauty of solo trips is the reliance on God’s plan for you—and nothing else. No outside opinions. No last-minute bailers. No attitude problems. No being late because you’re waiting on other people. No indecisive restaurant choices. No conflicts. Just vibes. Your vibe. And that, my friend, is a beautiful thing.
The confidence begins when you book that flight and tell no one about it. I mean, it’s so fun when you share your location with friends and family and one day they check and you’re in Hawaii, or Greece, or Tennessee, or wherever your heart desires. The reason for a solo trip is your own very unique reason—and you don’t need to explain yourself to anybody. It’s okay to tell one or two people you trust so no one gets worried, but if you’re a girl like me? You don’t tell anybody except your momma the day before.
See, my most grand solo trip started as a single flight to Tennessee from my hometown in Southern California. It ended up with apartment tours, camping, free meals and lodging, and another flight to Chicago! My intuition (and mainly God) spoke to me the entire trip and told me where to go next. I had this little thing (that ain’t so little) called faith.
I woke up one morning—on my birthday—in Chicago with my distant family and an acceptance letter to an apartment I loved in Western Tennessee. I cried, jumped for joy, screamed, hugged my uncle, and thanked him for being there to share such exciting news. And that? That was life-changing.
See, when God tells you (you know that little voice in your head that you think is your own thoughts—yeah, that’s God speaking, love) to do something, move somewhere, start that idea—you do it. You don’t need to have all the control or know the why. Just know you’ll find out the why along the way. Just have faith. Book that flight. And don’t tell nobody until you come back. Take a solo trip, girl. It just might enhance your life.
🧳 Tips for Booking Your Solo Trip
USE YOUR RESOURCES.
🌐 Digital Tools That Feel Like Magic
- TripAdvisor: We have TripAdvisor—the #1 booking site for flights, things to do, places to stay, restaurants to eat at, and so much more. It’s full of great ideas once you pick your destination. Read reviews, compare prices, and build your itinerary like a moodboard. It’s not just a site—it’s a portal to possibility.
- Google Flights: Track prices, set alerts, and find the best time to book. It’s like having a travel oracle in your pocket.
- Airbnb & Vrbo: For cozy stays that feel like home. Filter by “Superhost,” read every review, and trust your gut. Bonus points if the space has a bathtub, balcony, or bookshelf.
- Rome2Rio: If you’re hopping cities or countries, this app shows you how to get from point A to point B—plane, train, ferry, or foot.
- Pinterest: Yes, Pinterest. Search “solo travel packing list,” “healing destinations,” or “editorial travel photography” and let the visuals guide your spirit.
✈️ Airline Recommendation: Delta. Period.
Delta is that girl. She’s polished, reliable, and knows how to treat you right in the skies. Here’s why I always recommend Delta for solo travel:
- Free carry-on + personal item
- In-flight Wi-Fi (so you can journal, stream, or check in with your spirit team mid-air)
- Seat-back entertainment with movies, music, and more
- SkyMiles rewards that actually add up
- Smooth app experience for booking, tracking, and rebooking if needed
- Delta Comfort+ upgrades for extra legroom and early boarding (yes please)
Delta’s vibe is luxury without the fuss. And honestly, Delta—if you’re reading this, go ahead and slide into my inbox with a lil sponsor offer or flight attendant position. I’m ready.
🧠 If You’re Anxious About Traveling Alone…
If you’re dealing with anxiety, fear, or worry about things that may never happen—or maybe you’ve seen Taken one too many times—my honest opinion? Give it to God. You don’t need it. You don’t need to worry about a damn thing.
I traveled to three of the “most dangerous” cities on my own (Baltimore, Memphis, and Chicago) and never felt a fearful bone in my body because I knew God was protecting me every step of the way. My spirit team is so strong. I LOVE YOU, MY ANGELS. Let it go, love, so that you may receive.
🌍 Destination Ideas for Your First Solo Trip
Here’s some FREE inspiration, girl. Take it and run:
Traveling in the US:
🌄 Sedona, Arizona — A Sacred Escape
For spiritual healing, find yourself in the red rocks of Sedona.
Enjoy breathtaking views, calming energy, and sunsets that feel like divine timing.
Bring a good camera—you’ll need it when the sun dips behind those majestic mountains.
🌺 Maui, Hawaii — Ocean & Intuition
Take yourself to an island.
Sip a piña colada, sit with the ocean, and journal your heart out.
You’ll be surrounded by the friendliest people—uplifting you as you watch the sunrise.
Don’t forget your sunscreen when you’re snorkeling or hiking volcanoes.
🌊 San Diego, California — My City, My Ritual
This is the place you come back to more than once.
Enjoy deep blue oceans, incredible food, amusement park adventures, and one of the best downtown nightlifes you’ll ever experience.
This is the solo trip you take when you’re ready to do everything under the sun—and make lifelong friends along the way.
🌆 Chicago, Illinois — City of Surprises
A time will be had. A time was had.
Baby, when they see a pretty girl like you enjoying a drink solo at a downtown bar, you might leave with more than you came for.
This is a city where you make plans and miss half of them—because something better always comes up.
Must-do rituals:
- Discovering distant family you didn’t know you had
- Boat ride along Lake Michigan
- Breathtaking experience at the Flyover
🎸 Nashville, Tennessee — Country Soul Meets City Girl
Hey city girl with a country heart—I see you.
Pack your cowgirl boots and jean shorts, and hit the road.
This city is perfect for lake days, country soul music, and BBQ rib tips.
It’s a self-care healing trip.
Things to do:
- Check for local festivals during your stay
- Live music nights
- Spa days & nature hikes
- Vintage shops & food tours
💧 Hot Springs, Arkansas — Detox & Divine Waters
Here, you’ll find yourself in the relaxing, warm waters of God’s natural hot springs.
The water is sacred and has healing properties like no other.
If you need a mind and body cleanse, come here with all your baggage—and be ready to release what no longer serves you.
Don’t miss:
- Quiet journaling by the springs
- Cozy cafés
- Historic bathhouse tours
🐬 Naples, Florida — Affordable Luxury
I know—when we hear Florida, we think expensive Miami nightlife.
But Naples brings the luxury and good vibes without the reachy prices.
You can have an affordable stay while dining in high-end restaurants at night and swimming with dolphins during the day.
Why it’s perfect for solo travel:
- Everyone’s doing their own thing—just like you
- Relaxed beach atmosphere
- Less foot traffic than other Florida hotspots
💫 Final Thoughts
These are just a few places I recommend for solo travel in the States.
There are plenty more, but if you’re a first-time solo traveler, this is a beautiful place to start.
And if you’re craving something a little more thrilling—something out-of-the-country thrilling—stay tuned. I’ve got you.
🌍 Traveling Outside the U.S. — Soulful Hotspots to Explore
Whether you’re craving spiritual healing, cultural immersion, or all-inclusive luxury, these destinations offer solo travelers the chance to reconnect, recharge, and ritualize every moment.
🧘🏽♀️ 🇮🇩 Bali, Indonesia — Where Healing Finds You
Bali is that place you didn’t know you needed—until you arrive.
The spiritual healing hits immediately, and suddenly you’re loving life in ways you didn’t know were possible.
What to do:
- Return home glowing—inside and out
- Join a yoga retreat and remember what your body is capable of
- Wander through breathtaking rice terraces and stunning architecture
- Visit Mother’s Temple for a spiritual cleanse
🐘 🇹🇭 Phuket, Thailand — $2 Meals & Million-Dollar Views
Phuket is for the traveler who wants luxury without the price tag.
It’s vibrant, welcoming, and full of once-in-a-lifetime nature experiences.
Must-do rituals:
- Explore nightclubs that might just change your party game
- Eat a buffet on the ocean
- Ride an elephant or canoe in crystal-clear waters
- Watch cultural dance performances by locals
💃 🇪🇸 Valencia, Spain — Dance & Deep Rest
Whether you want to move your body or melt into stillness, Valencia offers both.
Things to explore:
- Wander through Ruzafa’s vintage shops and indie cafés
- Witness Balls al Carrer—a living ritual of Valencian identity
- Drop into a Yoga Flow class to release tension
- Visit a thermal spa for a midday reset
🧘♀️ 🌊 🇲🇻 Maldives — Floating Altar of Serenity
This isn’t just a destination—it’s a floating altar to peace.
Wake up in a villa surrounded by turquoise water so clear it looks like glass.
Rituals to embrace:
- Candlelit bath in the evening as you wind down
- Sunrise yoga on the beach
- Boat ride to a local sandbank
❄️ 🌋 🇮🇸 Iceland — Earth’s Loudest Whisper
Remember when we were kids and learned Iceland is green and Greenland is icy?
So random, so true. Iceland is nature’s loudest whisper—and it speaks directly to your soul.
What to feel:
- The zen of the Northern Lights dancing across the night sky
- The rumble of volcanoes beneath your feet
- The cool embrace of grand glaciers
🌸 🍜 🇯🇵 Tokyo, Japan — Culture, Cherry Blossoms & Karaoke
Tokyo is a sensory playground.
From authentic Japanese food to cherry blossom trees, every moment is a mood.
Things to indulge in:
- Kimono experiences and shopping in Shibuya for souvenirs that feel sacred
- Inexpensive, authentic meals that nourish body and soul
- Cherry blossom views and their unforgettable scent
- Anime Central for the anime girlies
- Karaoke nights to unleash your inner popstar
🚢 🌅 Take a Cruise — All-Inclusive on Water
When picking a cruise, the world becomes your oyster.
It’s like an all-inclusive resort—just floating.
Why it’s perfect for solo travel:
- No need to plan every detail—just pick your time frame and destination
- Unlimited meals, day and night
- Magic shows, island excursions, water slides, and nightclubs
- 24-hour security and endless ocean views
💫 Final Thoughts
These destinations aren’t just places—they’re experiences.
They’re invitations to heal, explore, and celebrate yourself in new ways.
Whether you’re dancing in Spain, meditating in Thailand, or sipping cocktails on a cruise deck, your solo journey is sacred. Make it your own.
Whether you’re dancing in Spain or journaling in Bali, every destination is a mirror.
- You don’t need permission to explore. You just need a passport and a little faith.
- The world is waiting for you—not the version of you that’s perfect, but the one that’s curious, courageous, and ready.
- Your next adventure might be the one that changes everything.
As we close this reding on solo travel & enjoying life from a new persepctive, let’s reflect. Connect in the comments with a few questions.
If you could book a flight today—no explanations, no apologies—where would you go?
What would it feel like to wake up somewhere new, with no one to answer to but your own intuition?
What rituals would you create if you had a week alone in a city that speaks your language?
Are you ready to turn your next trip into a healing ceremony?
Need some inspo? Meet the incredible Lu Colmenares—an emerging star in the podcast world and a powerful voice in solo travel. Tap in with her as she welcomes special guests who explore the world of women traveling on their own terms. Her episodes embrace the unknown, celebrate independence, and offer soulful insights from women around the globe. Hear their stories, gather wisdom, and receive the encouragement you need to fly out of your comfort zone.
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